You think it’s just about “Not taking directions?” Here’s an insider on Men.


#1“To ask for directions is to admit I am lost.”

#2 “To admit I am lost is to feel both anxious and incompetent.”

#3 “To feel anxious is about wondering if not knowing about this is dangerously close to fears of doubts about many things.”

#4. “To feel anxious and incompetent is to feel less than and not worthwhile especially when I compare myself to other competent men.”

#5 “To feel less worthwhile than other men is to feel vulnerable to their negative regard and even scorn (to match that which I am already feeling towards myself).”

#6 “To ask other men who I project might be feeling as judgmental towards me as I feel towards myself is to invite ridicule and humiliation.”

#7 “To risk ridicule and humiliation from others for being inadequate when I am already feeling that is too much and it’s easier to just fumble around and figure it out myself. “
We hear you, Men! It’s a Vicious circle !! You’re not crazy !
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