The Subtle Art Of Shifting Your Romantically Clingy Friend Into The 'FRIEND-ZONE'!!

The Subtle Art Of Shifting Your Romantically Clingy Friend Into The 'FRIEND-ZONE'!!

‘The Friend Zone’: A nightmare for everyone!! Well, I know this can be a dreadful place... 

... to be in love with someone and being brutally friend zoned but then, sometimes, a no or a direct friends-love indication is so not enough for some clingy beings... 

Love can get complicated, and ohh... seems like a boy-girl friendship throughout its time is difficult for some people to understand. 

Your best go-to person has started to fall for you and you are pretttyyy clear that you don’t see anything of that sort in him...  

uhh... admit it! 

 We all have gone through such circumstances in some phase of our lives and mind you!  
That phase could be referred to anything but a beautiful memory... 

Anyways, the past is in the past now... but if you’re currently dealing with such a bizarre situation and now is the time you have to stick a pin through the romantic bubble, they’ve recently created... 

Although it all sounds very easy to hear it kinda is NOT! The thought of hurting someone’s feeling really sucks! 

While you’re in all these dilemmas’, I’ve already decoded some safe tricks od hurting without hurting... 

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1.Use Safe Words To Address Your Buddy 

The names or tone in which we address people can give away the way we feel about them - that's your first ammo!  

‘baby’, ‘Bebaa’ and ‘Honey’ are so not the words you should be using while you know what is the other individual is feeling for you... 

This would do no good! 

Instead try using, ‘Bro’ or ‘Buddy’ that may really help...   

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2. Planning Personal Hangouts? HELL NO... 

If both of you are used to hanging out a lot... 

.. and are constantly in contact with each other either via texts, calls, or chilling sessions,  

STOP! you need to limit this, like RIGHT NOW...  

The other person needs to understand and realize that you do not have anything of that sort in your head and... 

...YOU...  

...on the other hand, needs to understand that you’ve to give him the required space and time to process.

3. Discuss your Crushes 

The most powerful trick in the book - talk to him about other guys/girls you fancy or drool for... 

 This way, you kinda clears that you are obviously not into him, neither do you want to imagine yourself in that space... 

Sorted for life, my friend!! 

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4. No Senti-MENTAL Conversation 

Well, now that you’re so sure about the limit of your friendship and feelings about it, be very clear that you do not make any conversation that might require any sort of emotional baggage. 

Yes! I know your intention must be too clean to share anything, but you need to understand that the other person is not in a space to get it straight without looking at it through the romantic frames. 

NO ‘I Love You’ while being in this phase... because, whom are we kidding? Beta! I Love You as a friend concept kisi ko nahin samajh aata.  

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5. A Big ‘N-O' to Mixed Signals 

Under no circumstance should you show him any hints of lovey-dovey angle to his expectations. 

I know, it is difficult sometimes to resist yourself from flirting, but if you truly value your friendship with this person - don't! 

Sending mixed signals in such a circumstance is soo not healthy and it might cause a lot of heartaches and hurt for your friend, and in turn, you. 

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So, fellas start following all of these basic ways to give your sentimental friend a polite push-into the not-so-sweet “friendzone” dead end. 

And ohh... Thank me later!